[quote author="ktolbert" date="1240957959"]Not only can you do both, you *should* do both. It’s not an either/or proposition – to present as such is a false dichotomy. I’ve had lots of academic all-conference athletes and academic all-american teams as well as natiuonal champions, conference champs and so on. I am as easily annoyed by people who waste their opportunity for a quality education as I am with those who waste their athletic talent.
I realize that I may be in the minority here, but I just believe that practice is fairly sacred. I’ve had kids who had to take classes that conflcited with practice. We work around it. Family things do come up, and when reasonable I try to accomodate those things, but it’s not an absolute. With the younger student-athletes I am a lot less flexible until they demonstrate a certain level of responsibility/commitment to excellence.
I am on board.
I have tried to be the “nice guy” and eventually you get rolled on. Lay out the expectations and make the first few weeks tough. Once you know they are in the trenches with you and earned some respect, show em that you are human.
I have a small contingent of athletes every year and I still have no problems weeding out the herd. Either you are committed, or you aren’t. Eventually, those that are committed resent those that aren’t and also take away from the time you can be spending with the kids that want to be there.[/quote]
I think you and Kebba mistook what I wrote about tough guy coaches. I am writing more about the coaches who lay down rules so arcane they cannot be enforced from the get go and then later when they are enforced it creates problems. Enforcing rules is not taking care of a discipline problem, and doing it 9-12 weeks into the season when you knew it would conflict at the beginning of the season is not discipline its creating or allowing or hoping a discipline problem will not occur. Coaches have to be flexible and fair at the scholastic level. I agree you have nip problems in the bud, before they bloom into a disaster later on.
If a coach is laying down a policy that zero practices cannot be missed for whatever reason and tardiness is not accepted then he needs to enforce such a policy from day 1 and the parents meeting by removing any athletes that are going to conflict at the start of the season. This is often the policy most coaches are taught and almost zero adhere to, and if they use it as policy it is going to cause problems. 20-30 years ago I don’t think this would have caused problems.